We've distorted the entire world by our twisted defenses, and so are therefore seeing what exactly is not there. As we find out to acknowledge our perceptual mistakes, we also learn to appear past them or "forgive." Concurrently we are forgiving ourselves, hunting earlier our distorted self-concepts on the Self https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTleG6-484F7WHZD0hAjRRw